I’m all about group classes. I love being around people who are sweating and working their asses off. It’s motivational and inspiring. Plus, it makes you feel better to know you’re not the only one getting your ass kicked by the workout.
I’ve tried the whole working out alone in the gym thing. And you know what? I found it totally boring. I like being around people, so the social aspect of my workout keeps my mind sane while I’m pushing my body.
That being said, it’s important to surround yourself with the right people. Working out shows you where your strengths are as well as your weaknesses. For some, their weaknesses can be a sore spot. It’s important to be around people who will life you up rather than tear you down.
Here’s what I think makes the perfect workout partner
1. You love the same sport. Whether you’re bending, lifting or running together, you both share a love for the same activity. Don’t try to force your significant other or bestie into doing what you love. No one likes a negative nancy while they sweat.
2. You think win-win. The perfect workout partner will be similar to you in strength, whether you’re out on a trail run, lifting weights or in a hot yoga class. It makes pushing each other easier. However, there is a big difference in competition and friendly competition. For example, if find yourselves saying “I’m going to lift more,” or “I’m going to beat them,” you’re straight up competing with them. (Side note-don’t say this out loud. You’ll sound like an ass.) Friendly competitors think more along the lines of “if they can keep going, I can keep going.” Try thinking win-win instead of I’m going to win.
3. You have similar goals. It’s easy to motivate and push each other when you have similar goals. You work on making progress together. You both value your time inside or outside (depending on your sport) because your end point is the same. This is also where that friendly competition comes in. It’ll push you that much more to reach your goal if you have someone working by your side.
4. You balance each other out. Sure you may have some similar goals, but you will have different strengths and weaknesses. Use them to help each other out. Coach each other. Have days where you work on your partners weakness, and days where together you work on yours. Nobody is perfect. Even if you are strong in one area, the continuous practice will make you that much stronger. Plus, nothing beats the feeling of helping someone else become stronger (physically or mentally).
5. Cheer each other on. Even when you can’t exactly breathe, you and your partner are still saying phrases like, “Come on!” and “You got it!” or “Almost there!” Chances are you’re saying them super fast, as to get it all in one breath. But you know what? That right there is workout partner love.
Here’s the part in the post where I get to ramble about my fabulous sweat partners.
This upside down bad-ass is Ansley. She is without a doubt the best CrossFit partner I could ask for. We push each other, help strengthen each other’s weaknesses and work towards similar goals. Walking handstands…here we come!
This blonde bombshell, Erin, sparked my love for yoga, and reignited my passion for running. Together we pushed through challenging hot vinyasa classes and beasted some runs up awful hills. (LOL what were we thinking?!) Thanks for the motivation, baby girl!
Workouts need to be motivating and fun. If you’re workout partner sucks the fun out sweating, it may be time for a break-up.
Who do you love to sweat with? Who keeps you motivated and having fun at the gym, in the studio or on the trails?